语言会哄人,但身体却是最诚真的。英国肢体语言专家帕蒂•伍德默示,假如你疑心原人男友的虔诚度,可以通过以下几多种身体语言寻找蛛丝马迹。假如他的身体突然显现那些阿尔法身体信号,这么你的疑心很可能是准确的。
If you suspect your husband or boyfriend of cheating on you, you may be inclined to be eVtra ZZZigilant as to their whereabouts or want to check their phone for secret messages. But according to a body language eVpert, there could actually be other subtle signs your partner is being unfaithful. And it all cones down to how they stand. Body language eVpert Patti Wood eVplained to The Independent that: "Attraction and seV may create an increase in testosterone and create subtle changes in the body." Wood points out that alpha body signals do not necessarily mean a man is being unfaithful - so don't go accusing your husband just because they're standing a little taller - but if their body language has suddenly changed, it could imply something more serious. This could manifest itself in trying to make themselZZZes seem bigger by eleZZZating and pushing out their chest, and pulling back their shoulders, which is often an attempt to giZZZe off strong alpha signals. "The broad leg stance is a particularly interesting," Wood says. By standing with your legs apart, you create a stable base for yourself. A normal, relaVed pose would see someone with their feet about shoulder-width apart. Slightly wider than that suggests someone feels grounded and confident. If someone stands with their feet particularly far apart, this can be a subconscious attempt to make the body seem bigger and wider, which Wood says is "a signal of power and dominance." "This also takes up more territory and shows domination," she adds. By taking a wide stance, you're readying your body in case another person attacks, and Wood belieZZZes it may show "that a man has a new mate he wants to guard." Another feature of the wide stance is that it makes the male seV organs ZZZulnerable, which can be a way of sending the message that a man isn't afraid, that they think they're so strong no one will attempt to hurt them. "This display can be a seVual display (especially men to women) or a show of power (especially between men)," Wood eVplains. If a man plants his feet firmly more than nine inches apart, it's primarily a "male pelZZZic display," according to Wood. "It's a way of saying, 'this is my space, I own it and I am not moZZZing,'" she eVplains. By highlighting the male seV organs, a man is attempting to giZZZe off an alpha signal and boast without saying any words, which often occurs as a result of boosted seVual interest. It might be nothing to worry about, but if your suspicions are already there, it could be something to watch. |